Stalking
Hey friend, have you…
...ever been worried about sending messages on a public group?
...had someone mention your daily schedule even though they had no way of knowing?
...had someone show up to your work or school after updating it on social media?
These experiences, and many more besides, are faced by women and queer folks in the Global South — public figures and individual people alike — sometimes with life-threatening and life-altering consequences, such as having to move towns or abandon school.
No matter what form it takes, the unwanted harassment that online stalking puts us through infringes on our privacy and exercise of autonomy. Learn more about stalking and prevention measures together with Take Back The Tech!
“University girls… are now scared to join WhatsApp study groups because they get stalked.”#HeyFriend, have you faced unwanted, insistent attention on the internet?Have you thought twice about going somewhere, or commenting on a post, just because a person might use it to harass you?Are your posts…
“It is common for the online activities of women and girls to be surveilled by male family members.”#HeyFriend, are you worried that your family may see you and your life online?It’s a valid fear, and an unfortunate reality for so many of us in the Global South… because online stalking leads to…
#HeyFriend, do you think someone is spying on you?Are you worried about someone having physical or remote access to your devices? If you would like to know about preventative methods and ways to identify if this is happening on your phone, this is the right place for you.Red flags to look out for…
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Discrimination, abuse, exploitation, stalking, harassment, or cyberbullying reproduce gender-based violence and affect the offline lives of victims/survivors, evidencing the impact of virtual and technological spaces on everyday life. Online Gender-Based Violence (OGBV) is a continuation of offline…
“This violence is intersectional and may be accompanied by other forms of violence. A person can be physically followed, stalked, or spied on for subsequent threats. It all comes together. A holistic vision is needed to approach this work and undertake a risk assessment that tries to detect digital…
This is the third article in this series. The previous articles explained stalkerware and how it may lead to image-based abuse, some popular techniques of stalking that involve commonly used apps, features, online services and devices, and potential countermeasures to them. Note: Searching for,…
Note: Searching for, removing or disabling the means of stalking may alert the stalker. This may potentially cause the abuse to escalate, pose a risk to the target’s physical safety, and close their avenues to seek help or exit the relationship. If you are someone experiencing stalking or…
Search for “How to spy on my spouse” on the internet (or replace “spouse” with “lover”, “girlfriend”, or “boyfriend”) and it reveals a disturbing reality. There are scores of results for persons who suspect their partners of infidelity, or are frustrated and heart-broken over an unexpected or messy…
This is the fourth and final article in this series.Risk assessmentAll stalkers are not equal. Different stalkers have different motives and capabilities. Some want to keep their targets in a state of fear and anxiety but do not have the ability or opportunity to directly cause them physical harm…
Stalking moves like water, from offline to online and back again. Many young girls and queer people face it as a real threat in their lives, from family and “friends” to the general online public who just may not like what they post online, or take an obsessive interest in their content and their…
Do you feel like someone is following you online, even though you may have blocked their profiles?Sometimes, the digital world may not be as friendly as we had hoped. In it, we may be surrounded by violence, discrimination, exploitation, abuse, harrassment and stalking - similar to the offline…